brittany nicole

Look! I just did my first podcast interview and I’m literally watching the replay like…

The replay is so good. I’m over here like girl, I can’t believe you said that…

But, go check it out and let me know what you think.

I love a good girl talk segment and I need y’all to go support my girl Lesley with her podcast: Les Be Real

You can tune in on

Apple Podcast

or

SoundCloud

Her podcast is going to blow up and I’m so grateful for the opportunity to be able to support her on this journey before that happens. She actually had me spilling all the tea on my dating experiences this year. I’ve been pretty quiet about my dating encounters this year. I learned quite a bit about myself. I think I’m going to stay on DND from now until June 2021, but I’ll keep y’all posted.

Maybe I should share what those 3 guys taught me on the blog next. Maybe I should bring one of them on YouTube for an interview.

I don’t know. We’ll see.

Here’s what I do know:

I am a beautiful soul who attracts broken individuals. I think it’s a calling and I’m definitely not sure how God expects me to sort through the brokenness and actually meet the one who has went through a healing process of his own.

I am independent and established and unwilling to settle for the bare minimum.

Even though I’ve been hurt this year, I still believe in love. I believe that I will meet a guy who will appreciate me having a big heart and not take advantage of it.

I still struggle with not falling for potential because I’m unable to not see the good in people.

Immature men 27 & older will view kindness as a sign of weakness.

I love me. I respect me. I know my worth.

And as great of a person as I think I am, that doesn’t excuse me from getting the short end of the stick.

The wake up call was so real this year.

Sis, I got played too and you want to know who I was mad at the most?

Myself.

Mainly because all 3 guys that I gave a chance to this year had already tried a time or two in the past. And I didn’t budge.

I should have kept that same energy. But sometimes we have to learn a few lessons the hard way.

Honestly that’s when stuff sticks for me the most. Baby, I’m talking about I shift gears real quick after the fact.

So I’m on DND and I’m flourishing and still healing.

It’s possible to flourish in one area and heal in another. Pace yourself though, beautiful.

You too need to go place yourself on whatever mode that will help you flourish going into 2021.

Just know that to flourish means to grow and develop in a healthy way.

And that gorgeous is #goals. So cheers to new beginnings for me and you.

#BNspired2day