brittany nicole

When you blame a guy for breaking your heart… But God stopped you at every red light, caution lights were blinking nonstop, and stop signs were in the picture too. You ignored every flag on the play…..

When a guy thinks the world of you, he will show you. His actions will reveal his true feelings, his words will reveal his thoughts. When his actions prove to you that he’s not ready,keep it moving and cut him off in the process. When he states that he’s just not that into you, understand that he has just cut you off effective immediately.

If he’s inconsistent while you’re talking, he will do the same if you’re dating one another. Why entertain him full time, when he’s barely entertaining you part time.

Ladies: If you’re seeking attention from a guy, I can guarantee he’s going to give you exactly what you want. While you’re willing to allow him VIP access into your personal life, he’s added finger identity to unlock his phone. Following his guidelines set about not speaking in public, nor do you approach without him signaling you first. You continue to go through his phone, you continue to find a reason to leave him… Yet you continue to make excuses because you think he’s going to change sooner than later.

If a guy ask for your number, and you don’t hear from him within 2 days… Well I would say he wasn’t worth the breath you used to give it to him. Do not fall for the line that he’s been so busy, because that’s a lie. We make time for what we want, and if he was interested: he would have text you day one. Guys thrive off of a challenge, and if they classify you as ‘easy’ then you lost the game before it even started.

Ladies lie about having options which basically means that they have no one. Ladies will also lie by saying that they are not concerned with what their man does because he’s coming home to them at night. Just remember that if you allow it during the dating stage, it will continue once you say ‘I DO’. Set the standard high. If he can’t meet your standard, he shouldn’t meet your parents. If he is not good enough to meet the parents, then he isn’t good enough for a meeting in your bedroom.

Just because he text you today, doesn’t mean he’s going to take you out tomorrow. Just because he liked your pic on Instagram, doesn’t mean he’s going to make you his woman crush Wednesday. Just because y’all had a sleepover, doesn’t mean you’re the main chick. Just because he gave you a compliment, doesn’t mean that he has classified you as his type. Just because he goes to church with you, does not make him a christian. Just because his status is in a relationship, doesn’t mean that his side chicks are extinct. Just because you meet his mother, doesn’t mean you’re ‘The One’.

Guys will always tend to their garden, and they typically need a hoe to do so… but if you learn to tend to your own… You won’t have to question if what you planted will grow.