brittany nicole

I used to be a tough critic and I would analyze the life of others to a T, I strongly felt that I would end up as a counselor of some sort one day. The problem with being a tough critic was that I excluded myself from the equation. So I felt like my sin just wasn’t as bad as some of the sin I was witnessing on a day to day basis. I would have been such a harsh judge if I would have ever attended law school. I felt like I was the best people reader and since people would always return to me for more advice, I continued to place my flawed self above the majority. I honestly can admit that I was “Winning With The Wrong Mentality” 😳

Let me discuss some facts with you about my past self…

I was the girl that would go to the club and the goal for my attire was “Conservative Sexy” In my mind if I didn’t showcase all my goodies, and I didn’t drink… I was more classy than the girl next to me!!! #winning_?

I was the girl that would question how a female could sleep with any guy that wasn’t her boyfriend, and felt like that gave me permission to go all the way with bae… “She’s single and should have more respect for herself.” How naive was I to think such a thing? 🙄 My standards are higher than hers!!! #winning_?

I was the girl that would advise females on the importance of setting the standard from day one in a relationship, but would turn around and create excuses for the unnecessary crap I was accepting  from my boyfriend at the time… Her man has nothing, mine does at least have potential… So once again I think I’m smarter than she  is!!! #winning_?

Im now the girl that finds it hard to judge people , especially those that I see a little of old Brittany in. When you declare yourself to be a judgemental person, you must be living a flawless life. I’d be foolish to keep judging others when I still have things that I struggle with and sometimes have to seek God for daily assistance on what’s simple to most and difficult for me. 

I’m now the girl that overthinks what I wear because I fully understand that I’m the daughter of a King, I don’t have to show any skin for his attention. I don’t have to be at the club to be the life of the party, and to be classified as “SEXY” is no longer goals for me. I’ve made it a priority to live wholeheartedly for God. When people tell me that I’ve changed, I don’t argue with them. I have changed, but the reason behind it was to become a better version of myself. I’ve discovered who I am, but that required for me to discover whose I was first. 🙌🏾

#TheWait will change your mindset literally… allow you the opportunity to create boundaries, set standards, and never have a reason to settle going forward. I’m far from perfect and know that there’s a female out there somewhere who has deemed it okay in her mind to sleep with a guy because you have a title. A title can be given today and gone tomorrow… Don’t put your trust in things that aren’t promising. My trust is in God, not Johnny who is claiming me as his girlfriend on social media TODAY…💁🏾 I’m currently reading the book #TheWait and would highly suggest it, especially to someone who is battling with the decision to do so. 3 years for me in December… 🙌🏾 Glory to God for a renewed mindset and a forgiving heart towards my past. That’s a testimony all by itself that I’ll have to share at a later time. 😉

This blog is for someone special… I pray whoever that individual is has the opportunity to read this blog sooner than later. Never judge the cover of a book, if you haven’t at least read a chapter or two. 

Be blessed and less judgmental… 

#BNspired2day ❤️😘