brittany nicole

So if your ex reached out to you and said this statement: All I want for Christmas is YOU….

Would you block their number immediately?

OR…
Respond for entertainment purposes only because none of your other randoms have made an effort to contact you in awhile.

OR…
Start believing that this year you actually made Santa’s nice list because you wanted to get back with your ex too.

OR…
Maybe you would think too hard about it, talk yourself out of doing all of the above and not do anything but brag to your friends that your ex wants you back.

If you choose to block their number immediately, your undivided attention is directed at someone else. You might be curious what would happen if you responded, but you’re not willing to lose something good over the unknown. Round of applause for doing so… But now that you know that your ex is interested in you, how long will the number stay blocked? Curiosity over Reality will have you playing the ‘What If’ game all day long. The minute you let your guard down for whatever reason will have you blowing up their line… And what’s the number one excuse: I text the wrong number. LOL

If you respond for entertainment purposes only, make sure you are the director and your ex is the audience. If you allow your ex to be the director, then they will have you trying out for role after role. You will try out for whatever role is hiring: Main Bae, Side BAE, Part Time Bae, and don’t forget about After Hours Bae. I hate to break it to you: but you will never get the job that you’re applying for, but your ex will gladly offer you the position that is available. If anything you will be put on the bottom of the call back list, basically we can just classify you as Last Option Bae.

Main Bae: you have enough potential that sparks their interest, they’re willing to pursue you and see what the future holds. Best advice to you: just because you’re it now, doesn’t mean you’ll be it forever. Know your role, and play it well. Never underestimate the opponent.

Side Bae: you’re aware that their attention might not be solely on you, but since you’re an optimist: you think you’re in the running to be the ‘Main’ during the next go around. Best advice to you: You have just granted your ex the authority to play you in the game of Duck Duck Goose, but unfortunately you will never be chosen as the goose.

Part Time Bae: we can refer to you as seasonal. Hired for a short period of time, and then cut loose after your services are no longer needed. Yes, we all know that if they are impressed with your work, you will remain employed. Best advice to you: Your ex is only going to be needing you for the short period of time, but apply next year and you can pick up right where you left off.

After Hours Bae: you can’t be happy with being on call to deliver services to your ex. You are aware that your ex is using you and will never be able to love you unconditionally. Your self esteem has been beaten down so low that you have no standard set for yourself. Best advice to you: evaluate why you’re seeking attention from someone who has no respect for you as a person. Know that if you don’t love yourself, you can’t expect someone else to.

Last Option Bae: you will be reached out to, when no else responds to your ex. Best advice to you: if no one else is responding, maybe you shouldn’t be either. Know that your ex has their priorities in order, and you didn’t make the list. Don’t think that by entertaining them, you will be granted a promotion.

Santa travels all around the world, delivering presents to all of the good boys and girls. If all Santa brought you, was your ex…. You might didn’t make his list at all.

If you couldn’t decide what to do in the heat of the moment, but chose to go brag to your friends that your ex wants you back….. The jokes on you because you obviously want a second chance too. You just went to inform your friends to see if they would judge you harshly for taking your ex back. Best advice to you: since the question is not if you’re going to take them back but when??? Just be careful to not fall into the same misunderstandings, and remember that the past is the past. By giving a second chance, you’re willing to start fresh and grow as a couple: spiritually, mentally, and physically.

Since second chances are causing for Love to be in the air, I hope you’re prepared for if your ex has a repeat episode of amnesia and ends up stating that ‘ALL I REALLY WANT FOR CHRISTMAS IS… NOT YOU’

HO, HO, HO To All & To All A Goodnight 😜