Ugly Truth: If She’s Single

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When a guy meets a girl that seems too good to be true, you automatically assume she’s taken. Most of the time, a girl can have everything going right…. Except when it comes to relationships, she clearly took too many lefts. If a single girl knows how to do anything to perfection, it’s how to flirt. Unfortunately a guy will take all of her hints to be a joke and never return the favor, because in his eyes he doesn’t have a chance with her.

You begin to think of how many of her standards do you meet. All females have standards, whether they be classified at the very basic level or the level of complexity at its finest. Some females require a guy to have a job making enough to support her, a nice car, and don’t forget abs to die for. Others require work ethic and are willing to invest in your future because they see potential (ladies be careful, you could be blind). I know females who only aspire to be with a guy that has heart and the drive to be a better man tomorrow than he was today.

The single lady could be content with her life, her smile can light up an entire room, believes that confidence is the key to being successful. She may turn heads when she walks into a room, she can probably support her spending habits. She’s perceived to be classified as special because she’s unique in more than ways than one. Even though she sounds amazing, she’s constantly overlooked.

The ugly truth about a single lady is that her heart has been broken on so many occasions that she’s lost count. She’s resulted to making herself unavailable, so that she can figure herself out and not drag a guy through her misery.

Ladies: being single is not a curse, you can stop praying to God to break it. You’ll never find true happiness with anyone until you conquer the task of loving yourself first. Keep your standards as high as your self esteem. Timing is everything, be patient. This is just a transitional period of preparation for when you do meet Mr. Right. The guy that will prove to you exactly why it never worked with any guy in the past. Leave Mr. Left at the dead end where you found him, turn the blanking caution lights on out of courtesy for the next young lady.

Guys: All single ladies aren’t bitter and stuck in the mindset that all guys are the same. Single ladies just know the difference between less and the best. They refuse to settle, when they know what they deserve. Beware of playing mind games, because more than likely she lost enough in the past to beat you in the present at your own game. Don’t overlook these precious gems, they’re just dying to be taken off the market. Costly investment, just maybe….. but if she’s the one, you really can’t put a price on true love.

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